I use the Black Diamond in 40/80 grit from TSC. It's less than 1% free silica. It will etch a hole through the glass if you leave it in one spot long enough, so it will give you the depth and texture you get from the play sand, and it won't kill you. Always wear eye protection and a mask when blasting, regardless of what you're using. It's not just the media to worry about inhaling, its what you're removing from the surface you're blasting.
My rule, if it's not air, it not going in my lungs (unless of course I swallow something the wrong way, in which case coke, food, spit, etc. may enter, albeit unintended.

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